Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm not into game playing so all this put her on the back burner and talk to other women to piss her off crap is a waste of time to me.

Tell her what she did was unacceptable to you, as you two planned that time together and she cancelled just for a non emergency.


Communication > playing games.

She doesn't care ..if she pulled that bullsh!t in the first place what makes you think
she'll suddenly have remorse or enlightenment ?

There is no reasoning/logic with narcissists like this. Just move on for yourself
 

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Been talking to this one woman for a week. She's 28, we been flirting like crazy, facetime the whole bit. schedules conflicted and today we were suppose to link up.

We were suppose to meet at 2, I get there 15 min early bc I value my time and others. She's running late from work. Minor nuisance but aight cool.

It's 2:20 I hit her up with the "are you close". 10 min later she says "im 24 away, sorry im rushing"

I took my ass home and hit her with the "take your time im going home"

My logic is women like like that who dont value your time will walk all over you if you let them. Would she show up an hr late to a date with Trey Songz? Could I have waited, chilled and prob and smashed? most def. I just value myself more than that so I dipped:yeshrug:
 

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You are getting a first hand look at how she sees you....

An expendable n!gga she can "drop" and "pickup" at any time.

My advice...delete and block and find other women who actually value you

Nah I think been was talking about somebody else. I was just saying its hard to cut certain chicks off when u actually feeling them. I do agree with you tho. I told myself I would always make sure I have Option's to always fall back on
 

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Is there really a such thing? :mjpls:
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Been talking to this one woman for a week. She's 28, we been flirting like crazy, facetime the whole bit. schedules conflicted and today we were suppose to link up.

We were suppose to meet at 2, I get there 15 min early bc I value my time and others. She's running late from work. Minor nuisance but aight cool.

It's 2:20 I hit her up with the "are you close". 10 min later she says "im 24 away, sorry im rushing"

I took my ass home and hit her with the "take your time im going home"

My logic is women like like that who dont value your time will walk all over you if you let them. Would she show up an hr late to a date with Trey Songz? Could I have waited, chilled and prob and smashed? most def. I just value myself more than that so I dipped:yeshrug:

Don't blame u the only thing I do diff is make her meet me closer to my neighborhood too see if she really value my time and have her on temporary just hit and quit or fwb status till she shows she can upgrade more than that if she was willing to meet closer to my area since she was so late
 

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Been talking to this one woman for a week. She's 28, we been flirting like crazy, facetime the whole bit. schedules conflicted and today we were suppose to link up.

We were suppose to meet at 2, I get there 15 min early bc I value my time and others. She's running late from work. Minor nuisance but aight cool.

It's 2:20 I hit her up with the "are you close". 10 min later she says "im 24 away, sorry im rushing"

I took my ass home and hit her with the "take your time im going home"

My logic is women like like that who dont value your time will walk all over you if you let them. Would she show up an hr late to a date with Trey Songz? Could I have waited, chilled and prob and smashed? most def. I just value myself more than that so I dipped:yeshrug:

I don't blame you for handling the situation like this. I had something similar happen to me last month. I had plans to meet a shorty for dinner at 7. I get to the spot a bit early and I wait. 15 minutes after 7, she's still not there and not answering texts. So I went back to the crib. Shorty showed up and called me asking where I was. Told her I don't like my time being wasted so I went home.

She asked me if I was coming back and I told her no I'm good. I'm gonna watch these NBA finals and chill. She couldn't believe it lmao. She ended up coming to my crib later that night but I kicked her out because she smelled like cigarettes.

My homie told me I was too hard on her. Said Portuguese people from the island are never on time for anything. F that. At the end of the day, as a man, if you don't stand by your principles then you'll accept anything. I'm not with it.
 

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I don't blame you for handling the situation like this. I had something similar happen to me last month. I had plans to meet a shorty for dinner at 7. I get to the spot a bit early and I wait. 15 minutes after 7, she's still not there and not answering texts. So I went back to the crib. Shorty showed up and called me asking where I was. Told her I don't like my time being wasted so I went home.

She asked me if I was coming back and I told her no I'm good. I'm gonna watch these NBA finals and chill. She couldn't believe it lmao. She ended up coming to my crib later that night but I kicked her out because she smelled like cigarettes.

My homie told me I was too hard on her. Said Portuguese people from the island are never on time for anything. F that. At the end of the day, as a man, if you don't stand by your principles then you'll accept anything. I'm not with it.
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Don't blame u the only thing I do diff is make her meet me closer to my neighborhood too see if she really value my time and have her on temporary just hit and quit or fwb status till she shows she can upgrade more than that if she was willing to meet closer to my area since she was so late

If she reaches out i'll mildly pursue to smash if it's convenient

Breh that shyt aggravated me. You fukk up the dinner plans and then have the nerve to show up to my crib stinking of cigarette smoke. Got that smell getting all into my couch. She had to go. Been bushes for her ever since.

I dont date anyone that smokes. I'll never forget making out with this broad in Vegas a couple summers ago. My chest was burning for a day
 
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