Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Long story short this past weekend was my b day,woman from my past who I know from a mutual friend.We exchange #'s and we gonna meet up later this week.She def feeling the kid .Trust me on this she a prospect
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Womb Raider
5* Gooneral
Man, I really been running from depression ever since my last relationship ended...had to let shyt go with the last chick I was fukking cuz she the one who broke us up and that shyt was not good for my mental health...fukked a few other chicks but it didn't help. Been smoking weed, staying active playing ball and lifting, hanging with the bros...I still have suicidal thoughts every now and then. trying to get a new job and finish my last year of undergrad strong but this shyt is hard...idk wtf to do
TheArchitect
All Star
After a lot of thinking and evaluating, I've come to a couple of conclusions:
Ive always held a certain resentment towards women. Not that i just wanna slap every bytch i see, but they left a bad taste in my mouth since i was child, and it never really went away (i would automatically think negative thoughts, have negative/apathetic feelings towards them, etc.).
Another thing is I lack the ability to gain rapport with them. I think its because growing up I really wasnt hollering at females like that, and I would always feel awkward somewhat around them. I have some female homegirls, but only a couple.
So Im thinking maybe I oughtta get these negative thoughts and resentments out of my head, and start talking to more females in general....
Ive always held a certain resentment towards women. Not that i just wanna slap every bytch i see, but they left a bad taste in my mouth since i was child, and it never really went away (i would automatically think negative thoughts, have negative/apathetic feelings towards them, etc.).
Another thing is I lack the ability to gain rapport with them. I think its because growing up I really wasnt hollering at females like that, and I would always feel awkward somewhat around them. I have some female homegirls, but only a couple.
So Im thinking maybe I oughtta get these negative thoughts and resentments out of my head, and start talking to more females in general....
Reno89
All Star
To contribute to the original post: If she talking about her morals on the first date, she don't like you fam
Johnny Kilroy
79 points in 1 quarter
Keep your head up, breh. There's lots of other women out there. Use this as an opportunity to grow. No sense in going though all this shyt and not coming out a better man.
This woman, there are more like her, some even better. Now that you know this, and you know what surrendering your heart to one woman can do to you, what's the lesson? I would conclude talk to as many as those girls as you can and be very selective about who, if anyone, you give your heart to.
No woman will ever love you like your mama or like you love yourself. Understand that going in. Whatever relationship you're in is a physical representation of love mixed with animal lust. All things physical die. So your relationship, be it a night or a year or a decade, is finite. Know this going in. Unconditional love between a man and woman takes decades to achieve. That's 50th wedding anniversary ish. Right now, it's all conditional. I'm looking for conditions, she's looking for conditions and if all of these conditions are met then we're "in love" but that's not true love.
This is an opportunity to meet new people, expand your circle. Get into conversations with complete strangers, men and women alike. Ask questions. This is an act of caring that will lead the world to open up to you with love. Take solace and find peace in that. It's also a good way to meet ladies too (hint hint).
i dont think so... more like she's trying to convince you (and herself) that she's not promiscuous
its all about what they do
Has anyone ever dealt with constant day dreaming and dreaming about a woman
I'm fukked up man, I just can't stop, like, I look at certain things and I catch myself in a trance and then I have to slap myself a bit to snap out
But when I dream about her there's nothing I can do, I guess it's a phase that goes but it kind of scares me, it's such a lack of control
I'm fukked up man, I just can't stop, like, I look at certain things and I catch myself in a trance and then I have to slap myself a bit to snap out
But when I dream about her there's nothing I can do, I guess it's a phase that goes but it kind of scares me, it's such a lack of control
Suspicious Dingo
Superstar
I've been there man. All you can really do is try to find other things to occupy your mind and, most importantly, stay the fukk away from her as much as possible... it will pass in time. It sucks, but sometimes all you can do is play the hand you're dealt.
Reno89
All Star
More like if she's talking about her morals on the very first date, she's convinced that she's not going to be smashin, and is attempting to deter you from shooting your shot
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Along with the 'I don't usually do this' every woman I've been out with who starts talking morals or about what she does or doesn't do on a first date is considering having sex. But doesn't want the man to think it will be too easy.
As I said to a woman I met yesterday night you're either horny or not. I find their is little ambivalence. A woman knows within 10 mins if she's open to sleeping with you. But we as men and women have to play this game where we pretend women don't have base desires like men. It's why a man has to read between the lines and make the first move. Most chicks do not and will not make that move and go in for a kiss to begin proceedings.
I'd met the same woman I mentioned above earlier for just a coffee date. And we got along so well that when that closed we grabbed a bottle of wine and went back to her apartment to watch the sun set on her balcony. When we did finally kiss she said she was unsure if I actually liked her, as I hadn't made a move all evening. We were actually having a good conversation so I thought anything else could wait.
We still smanged though.
As I said to a woman I met yesterday night you're either horny or not. I find their is little ambivalence. A woman knows within 10 mins if she's open to sleeping with you. But we as men and women have to play this game where we pretend women don't have base desires like men. It's why a man has to read between the lines and make the first move. Most chicks do not and will not make that move and go in for a kiss to begin proceedings.
I'd met the same woman I mentioned above earlier for just a coffee date. And we got along so well that when that closed we grabbed a bottle of wine and went back to her apartment to watch the sun set on her balcony. When we did finally kiss she said she was unsure if I actually liked her, as I hadn't made a move all evening. We were actually having a good conversation so I thought anything else could wait.
We still smanged though.
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Dreamzeedream
Banned
If I get turned down this time... 
Them I'm going back to the drawing board
Them I'm going back to the drawing board
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Yeah. Go see a therapist if you can so you can,get to the bottom of this. I'm talking from,experience
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Put mine on all day ignore one day, she blew up my phone with calls and texts all day. Even said good night and then called me again, that feeling of getting some space was so fye. Sometimes it be like that.