How old are you chap?
One thing i noticed about a bevy of your posts was how convincingly self-absorbed they are.
That shiit repels women breigh.
You say you walk into a room and with all these things going for you, you can't pull women of your desire?
The look is a VERY SMALL FACET of ones overall game. Your mouth piece should be 100 times more impactful than your "image".
If you don't exude confidence and sex appeal in lieu of telling us how swagged out you are, how truly effective is your approach in dealing with women?
Your hygiene and appearance is EXPECTED if you want to play at an exponential level of gamage.
You're no different than the next man; okay you spend a little more for the Evisu jacket and CK ONE cologne with the Air Force One Italian jumpoff edition.
But that's trivial when it comes to the grand scheme of attraction.
What i do commend about you is that you're willing to learn.
The guys who focus too much on their look lose sight of how to develop their character/personality. You seem pretty cut and dry. All buzz but no fly.
Working on your accomplishments is a start. You're going to school, bettering your future - but what are you doing right now that differentiates you from the next man?
Why would a woman choose you? There are tons of guys who dress well, look nice, intelligent... but you have to be able to sell that with your pizzazz. How unique are you? How creative will your verbal ensemble be when you're chatting her up? Do you have a sense of humor? What makes you special?
You crack an egg with one hand fluidly? Mix raw cement with a popsicle stick?
Throw a boomerang with your eyes closed and catch it riding a unicycle?
Do you have any suggestions on how to keep waters beds from freezing in an igloo?
Ideas, concepts, stories, material for future date set-up...
Man, all this comes with experience.
Are you even a charming dude?
It's great that you point out your strengths... now work on developing your character. Women love a man who's eccentric yet not too peculiar that it's creepy. You just have to find your niche/schtick, harbor it, let it manifest and then apply it.
Do you know how you get over being reserved/shy/bytchmade around women of higher caliber? YOu gotta to talk to EVERYBODY!!! Get comfortable with talking period. And EH EH EH, don't tell me you are... because it should be able to and willingly initiating interaction with people of all shapes, colors, sizes, creeds and flavors... that when you do strike it up with a dime piece, shiit is purely second nature.
You feel?
Your goal is to reach the stage in your life where if you were blinded, placed in a random position with any kind of stranger (i.e., a group of venture capital execs to a room full of strippers or victoria's secret models)... open up the blind fold and be able to effortlessly kill the mothafukkin scene with some awesome conversation and be the ULTIMATE center of attention.
That's what you get when you're so comfortable in your own skin you could sell roller blades to a paraplegic. Garlic to a vampire. Jeans and other westernized clothes to a Muslim woman.
You could convince a homeless man to fill out and submit a gawt damn job application!!!
Game is a state of mind. But that destination CANNOT be reached without experience.
Keep putting yourself out there and you will learn.
Get burnt. Get hurt. Get flaked on and ranked. Get fukked over and so heart broken - you're swallowing superglue in hopes of refragmenting it.
I keep telling people that this "GEMS" is the best shiit on the internet.
Just believe in the creed. Plant the seeds, watch it blossom with glee.
then you will succeed... and you shall - indeed, young bleed.
And i'm out;
God speed.
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