Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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It feels good that someone else read that book, and was interested enough to check it out. Appreciate that.
The book has some issues, the author can be pretty annoying and self righteous herself. But, this kinda highlights to me the "soft" flaws in Facebook, that come from the leadership and the founders, and other books focus more on the "hard" flaws (by design) like the algorthrim, the like button, the News Feed, the way it encourages identity and extreme view points. This looks at like who Zuck is as a man.
On texting vs calling:
The thing for me is I am someone who almost always is just inviting someone out when I call or text. I don't say good morning, I don't say how have you been? or send memes or cute bullshyt. I am either leading with dinner/invite or sex. I don't send feeler texts like "hey". or WYD. I just go right for it. So, for me, calls are way more effective. We can have a 30 second convo,
"Hey, are you free next Thursday at 6:00"?
"No, I have plans"
"ok cool, I'll talk to you another time, have fun at the baseball game"
With text, you may wait for an hour. Wait for a day. For some bland, overthought message deferring your invite, which doesn't make anyone feel good. Or even someone accepts the invite a day later. In real terms, I have something next Thursday, I have like maybe 5 solid -enough invites, women from 30-48, I have to choose which one, and then each one after that. I might go 0/5 and then I'll move to the next ones, or roll solo. But, that process will be very inefficient, because of texting. And then, you have the who will actually show up, which is another story.
The thing for me is I am someone who almost always is just inviting someone out when I call or text. I don't say good morning, I don't say how have you been? or send memes or cute bullshyt. I am either leading with dinner/invite or sex. I don't send feeler texts like "hey". or WYD. I just go right for it. So, for me, calls are way more effective. We can have a 30 second convo,
"Hey, are you free next Thursday at 6:00"?
"No, I have plans"
"ok cool, I'll talk to you another time, have fun at the baseball game"
With text, you may wait for an hour. Wait for a day. For some bland, overthought message deferring your invite, which doesn't make anyone feel good. Or even someone accepts the invite a day later. In real terms, I have something next Thursday, I have like maybe 5 solid -enough invites, women from 30-48, I have to choose which one, and then each one after that. I might go 0/5 and then I'll move to the next ones, or roll solo. But, that process will be very inefficient, because of texting. And then, you have the who will actually show up, which is another story.
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What's interesting is that while I 100% agree calls are a fading social norm, rapidly fading social norm, a lot of women are always on the phone, but it seems like hyper hyper selective. I see women all day around my neighborhood and work, they are usually locked in with headphones, and on Face Time, walking a dog, or going to the gym.
They aren't like casual quick convos, like I described above, or like a 5 minute convo, quick catch up it's like they intentionally call a close friend, a boyfriend, so they aren't interacting with anyone on the street. But they usually aren't important or urgent, they are like rambling long conversations.
They aren't like casual quick convos, like I described above, or like a 5 minute convo, quick catch up it's like they intentionally call a close friend, a boyfriend, so they aren't interacting with anyone on the street. But they usually aren't important or urgent, they are like rambling long conversations.
I think voice notes replaced phone calls in the sense of it is the middle ground of hearing voice and tone thus its personable yet easy to digesf as you may be in the middle of something
man a lot of women I meet and hit up. Are straight up just looking for money. Either they tryna sell some pics and videos or sell the cat. 
Maybe I’m approaching the wrong type of women, I guess it could be me and what I choose to go after but damn. It’s sick and sad that all these broads including ones that’s early 20s are basically prostitutes
Maybe I’m approaching the wrong type of women, I guess it could be me and what I choose to go after but damn. It’s sick and sad that all these broads including ones that’s early 20s are basically prostitutes
man a lot of women I meet and hit up. Are straight up just looking for money. Either they tryna sell some pics and videos or sell the cat.
Maybe I’m approaching the wrong type of women, I guess it could be me and what I choose to go after but damn. It’s sick and sad that all these broads including ones that’s early 20s are basically prostitutes
I was gonna ask wtf are you doing. Either you have trick energy or your type is literal sex workers
Bruh I don’t know. I don’t give off that vibe I don’t think. I think it’s the type I go after cause it’s crazy how often it happens to me. Normally a light skin slim thick chick is what I got after and I guess that’s the prostitution look here.
What age range? Because prostitution culture has taken over but older women will be more coded while younger chicks not. There are two trick lanes the “oooh he a baller” so they just want to latch on tk your lifestyle (and brehs who are gamed know they can have fun doing what they were already gonna do thus it isnt transactional and they not committing) or there is the I look down on you lens where chicks energy is you have to pay for my time
The first one the women thinks she is gonna get over but you already gone before the dust settles and all she is left with is IG pics lll
I’m 31 and I normally date women from 21 to 30 ish
But tbh in a city like Atlanta people still act young til they 45
me and some friends have run into this recently. maybe 1/5 chicks that we meet
i think its somethng they are being told on tiktok/IG - that a real man will provide and take care of them including giving them money
it be certain types of girls though. the wannabe "baddie" types
ATL is an unserious city ala Miami
It really is
Yeah it’s def a social media thing and it’s def a certain type of chick on that timing