Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The Frozen One]

Haven't got a cent, told her to start paying me back in January, even if its 50 a month. I know if she borrowed from her baby father etc. She would have paid back but she views me as soft and nice because of all the things I've done for her and her child (godson)

Are you paying that phone bill?

You learned your lesson like I did how ungrateful and users women can be., sad thing is you do it out of kindness not expecting anything

Nah she paid for it herself she knew how much the cost is per month and I told her last week how much she gotta pay for the next 2 months. Luckily she's not on a contract cause I got her the phone as a gift so she's not on my account under contract. What she doesn't know is that I can call the company right now and cancel it right away. I told her 2 weeks she's got but she begged and pleaded saying it's not a good time she's busy yada yada .. I told her fine a month but now I just want her out of my life period.

 

[MikelArteta]

Cancel if it wont cost you anything ts not your concern anymore . Stop giving her privileges you would give to someone whose nor your girlfriend.

Let the new guy at work put her on his account

Nah she paid for it herself she knew how much the cost is per month and I told her last week how much she gotta pay for the next 2 months. Luckily she's not on a contract cause I got her the phone as a gift so she's not on my account under contract. What she doesn't know is that I can call the company right now and cancel it right away. I told her 2 weeks she's got but she begged and pleaded saying it's not a good time she's busy yada yada .. I told her fine a month but now I just want her out of my life period.

 

[Turbulent]

Nah she paid for it herself she knew how much the cost is per month and I told her last week how much she gotta pay for the next 2 months. Luckily she's not on a contract cause I got her the phone as a gift so she's not on my account under contract. What she doesn't know is that I can call the company right now and cancel it right away. I told her 2 weeks she's got but she begged and pleaded saying it's not a good time she's busy yada yada .. I told her fine a month but now I just want her out of my life period.

the whole busy angle is BS cause it's only a phonecall. the time she's talking to you she would have had time to do it. It could also be a way for her to stay "tied" with you. By being dependent on you on playing on your sympathy, she is keeping a firm grip on the control she has over you. Your sympathy for her is her way of manipulating you. She'll only do as much as she needs to do to stay in your cypher, never more than necessary.

Offer to transfer the line to someone else like her mom or other fam or even her new BF so that she can still keep her number and watch her panic. If you tell her to take the line or else you're gonna cut it, watch her come up with a sob story. If you show her you don't give a fukk, watch her try to guilt trip you and call you all sorts of heartless fakkits and bitter, watch her cry, watch her threaten to expose you, get angry, get sad and depressed, threaten to commit that cause no one cares about her sorrows and she can't cope. If you show you STILL don't give a fukk (and it's actually genuine), watch her offer the puss on a silver platter. Once a chick sees she can't manipulate you with sympathy, shame, emotional blackmail because you're a man who does what he wants, and if she needs you for something, 9 times out of 10, they will offer the only thing they think they have left that you might want (the puss). take the puss for a while but without even caring and if they can feel it, the only thing left for them to give up is their soul...

Spoiler

demonic shyt...

 

[The Frozen One]

Cancel if it wont cost you anything ts not your concern anymore . Stop giving her privileges you would give to someone whose nor your girlfriend.

Let the new guy at work put her on his account

That's what I told her get that falkkit to see how dependent she is on people.

I'm gonn give her till after Christmas is she has not made any payments on my card or on the phone then it's being cancelled with no warning

 

[MikelArteta]

I wouldn't even take the puss, better to just cut your losses and run.

She's not your girl but expects to still get the benefits .

Its amazing the things women pull, they realize deep down only a few people actually give a damn about them yet those few people they treat like crap and manipulate and use their kindness.

Guarantee she wouldn't pull this crap on her baby father, guarantee NP one else would help her out.

And guarantee shed be blaming side if her phone did get cut off to everyone like its his fault

the whole busy angle is BS cause it's only a phonecall. the time she's talking to you she would have had time to do it. It could also be a way for her to stay "tied" with you. By being dependent on you on playing on your sympathy, she is keeping a firm grip on the control she has over you. Your sympathy for her is her way of manipulating you. She'll only do as much as she needs to do to stay in your cypher, never more than necessary.

Offer to transfer the line to someone else like her mom or other fam or even her new BF so that she can still keep her number and watch her panic. If you tell her to take the line or else you're gonna cut it, watch her come up with a sob story. If you show her you don't give a fukk, watch her try to guilt trip you and call you all sorts of heartless fakkits and bitter, watch her cry, watch her threaten to expose you, get angry, get sad and depressed, threaten to commit that cause no one cares about her sorrows and she can't cope. If you show you STILL don't give a fukk (and it's actually genuine), watch her offer the puss on a silver platter. Once a chick sees she can't manipulate you with sympathy, shame, emotional blackmail because you're a man who does what he wants, and if she needs you for something, 9 times out of 10, they will offer the only thing they think they have left that you might want (the puss). take the puss for a while but without even caring and if they can feel it, the only thing left for them to give up is their soul...

Spoiler

demonic shyt...

 

[MikelArteta]

She knows he won't.

Women know most men wouldn't do half of the things you are doing without her having to suck their dikk or sleep with them.

That's what I told her get that falkkit to see how dependent she is on people.

I'm gonn give her till after Christmas is she has not made any payments on my card or on the phone then it's being cancelled with no warning

 

[Turbulent]

I wouldn't even take the puss, better to just cut your losses and run.

She's not your girl but expects to still get the benefits .

Its amazing the things women pull, they realize deep down only a few people actually give a damn about them yet those few people they treat like crap and manipulate and use their kindness.

Guarantee she wouldn't pull this crap on her baby father, guarantee NP one else would help her out.

And guarantee shed be blaming side if her phone did get cut off to everyone like its his fault

i agree overall, some people you're just better off staying away from completely.

 

[Turbulent]

That's what I told her get that falkkit to see how dependent she is on people.

I'm gonn give her till after Christmas is she has not made any payments on my card or on the phone then it's being cancelled with no warning

doesn't she has family or friends (mother, father, brother/sister, cousin, new boyfriend) that can take the line for her? unless you told her the line will be cut by _____date, i feel like you're being too harsh (and this is just my personal opinion so take it for what it's worth). Be firm but fair. If you have already told her it was gonna get cut by november then by all means, do you.

 

[DaRealness]

Believe me you got off easy with just a bruised ego. This chick I was dating aka "simping" strung me along for a year. To make a long story short I found out she was also talking to some other nikka by chance. I erased her number and stopped talking to her but never let her know why. About a year later found out through social media she must have married old dude. Now 2 years later she contacts me out of the blue saying she's unhappily married and wishes things between us hadn't ended. And wondering why I just stopped pursuing her and fell off the face of the earth. Basically blaming me for not wanting to get serious with her like she did nothing wrong. Now she's talking about cheating on her husband with me. But of course in her mind she's justified because of the way he treats her. I could've ended up in this other dudes shoes if I hadn't just cut off all contact back then.

She's shown herself up for what she is. I would have just told her to fukk off and never contact me again.

These chicks are so grimy. First she cheats on you with him, now that she's unhappy with that dude she wants to cheat on him with YOU.

 

[The Frozen One]

the whole busy angle is BS cause it's only a phonecall. the time she's talking to you she would have had time to do it. It could also be a way for her to stay "tied" with you. By being dependent on you on playing on your sympathy, she is keeping a firm grip on the control she has over you. Your sympathy for her is her way of manipulating you. She'll only do as much as she needs to do to stay in your cypher, never more than necessary.

Offer to transfer the line to someone else like her mom or other fam or even her new BF so that she can still keep her number and watch her panic. If you tell her to take the line or else you're gonna cut it, watch her come up with a sob story. If you show her you don't give a fukk, watch her try to guilt trip you and call you all sorts of heartless fakkits and bitter, watch her cry, watch her threaten to expose you, get angry, get sad and depressed, threaten to commit that cause no one cares about her sorrows and she can't cope. If you show you STILL don't give a fukk (and it's actually genuine), watch her offer the puss on a silver platter. Once a chick sees she can't manipulate you with sympathy, shame, emotional blackmail because you're a man who does what he wants, and if she needs you for something, 9 times out of 10, they will offer the only thing they think they have left that you might want (the puss). take the puss for a while but without even caring and if they can feel it, the only thing left for them to give up is their soul...

Spoiler

demonic shyt...

breh she KNOWS what she's gotta do. She has full control of her line, meaning she can call anytime to transfer the number to her own name. I told her if she's not gonna take the line over, i'm cancelling it. Thats why i got the sob story of her needing time cause she's busy. Except the problem is this bytch has negative credit. When we went to get her an account, she couldn't sign up cause of her negative credit. So i put her on my own account but with no contract. The conditions were that she would pay directly to the account once a month. She did do that.

She doesn't want to call cause they will ask her for a deposit. She's broke with the 2 kids. That's why i had to give her my credit card so she buys furniture for her kids cause she moved out of her moms basement, and since she had gotten my trust with paying the phone bill, i thought she would pay the card. And this bytch has the audacity to tell me that i didn't want nothing to do with her kids. Except this bytch goes and buys other shyt, so i cut up the card right in front of her.

i already burned enough bridges with her...cutting out from social media and deleting her # of my phone and cussing the shyt out of her. But these things make me rage. I want my money back. I was thinking of fukking up her christmas party for work on saturday night cause she'll be there with the guy from work. I was gonna text her "hey make sure you show this text to XXX to see how dependent you were on me and how much you owe me money so he knows what he's dealing with. And btw the line will be cancelled in 1 week so ask him to put you on his account".

But that's not gonna help me get my money back. The best thing i can do is just not talk to her. Hoping she realizes what I did for her and out of her kindness of her heart she would pay me back. I firmly believe that she will be the one contacting me. The fact that she knows she's still dependent on me probably drives her crazy. Even after all this bullshyt but before i cut her off completely she told me she'll let me meet her kids etc etc .. i said nope.

 

[MikelArteta]

Wouldn't be shocked if she came from a broken home and no one really cares about her .

While it may sound harsh shrubs, there comes a Tims in life as a man you have to put yourselffirst bbecause trust me I know firsthand how cutthroat and mean women can be once they dump you or don't need you anymore .

doesn't she has family or friends (mother, father, brother/sister, cousin, new boyfriend) that can take the line for her? unless you told her the line will be cut by _____date, i feel like you're being too harsh (and this is just my personal opinion so take it for what it's worth). Be firm but fair. If you have already told her it was gonna get cut by november then by all means, do you.

 

[Turbulent]

breh she KNOWS what she's gotta do. She has full control of her line, meaning she can call anytime to transfer the number to her own name. I told her if she's not gonna take the line over, i'm cancelling it. Thats why i got the sob story of her needing time cause she's busy. Except the problem is this bytch has negative credit. When we went to get her an account, she couldn't sign up cause of her negative credit. So i put her on my own account but with no contract. The conditions were that she would pay directly to the account once a month. She did do that.

She doesn't want to call cause they will ask her for a deposit. She's broke with the 2 kids. That's why i had to give her my credit card so she buys furniture for her kids cause she moved out of her moms basement, and since she had gotten my trust with paying the phone bill, i thought she would pay the card. And this bytch has the audacity to tell me that i didn't want nothing to do with her kids. Except this bytch goes and buys other shyt, so i cut up the card right in front of her.

i already burned enough bridges with her...cutting out from social media and deleting her # of my phone and cussing the shyt out of her. But these things make me rage. I want my money back. I was thinking of fukking up her christmas party for work on saturday night cause she'll be there with the guy from work. I was gonna text her "hey make sure you show this text to XXX to see how dependent you were on me and how much you owe me money so he knows what he's dealing with. And btw the line will be cancelled in 1 week so ask him to put you on his account".

But that's not gonna help me get my money back. The best thing i can do is just not talk to her. Hoping she realizes what I did for her and out of her kindness of her heart she would pay me back. I firmly believe that she will be the one contacting me. The fact that she knows she's still dependent on me probably drives her crazy. Even after all this bullshyt but before i cut her off completely she told me she'll let me meet her kids etc etc .. i said nope.

how much she owes you?

 

[Turbulent]

Wouldn't be shocked if she came from a broken home and no one really cares about her .

While it may sound harsh shrubs, there comes a Tims in life as a man you have to put yourselffirst bbecause trust me I know firsthand how cutthroat and mean women can be once they dump you or don't need you anymore .

this is true but at the same time, i feel you shouldn't base what you do for someone else so much on what they'd do for you. i feel it should be based on your morals and principles above all. I think telling her you "you have til december 31st to figure out how you will take the line or else i'm cutting it, it is now your responsibility to contact the cellphone company and figure out how it can be done, and to have it done, if you're not taking this seriously, you will only have yourself to blame when it's all said and done." I think this would be firm but fair. fukk what she would do, you're doing what seems right in your eyes and aligned with your values.

 

[The Frozen One]

Wouldn't be shocked if she came from a broken home and no one really cares about her .

While it may sound harsh shrubs, there comes a Tims in life as a man you have to put yourselffirst bbecause trust me I know firsthand how cutthroat and mean women can be once they dump you or don't need you anymore .

You got it right. Her mom was in the same situation as her. Divorced with 2 kids and after a carousel of guys finally got someone to marry her. And the simp doesn't even have kids of his own.

Her mom HATED the fact she married young and especially HATED the fact that she couped at her basement after the divorce. So they always fought and i had to hear about that no one cares about her blah blah blah and how her life is so fukked up. Her mom treated her like shyt, so finally she had enough and moved out. I gave her my credit card so she buys some furniture for her kids.

She owes me a G. At first she told me the furniture would only cost $500 and she would pay me in 2 months, then this bytch uses me card as her own and buys herself clothes and perfume and she didn't even ask me. She would be like oh i thought you would know cause you can see the history. I was like bytch why would i check history if you telling me you only need $500.

The thing is though, she didn't break it off with me, i broke up with over some stupid argument, but then i wanted her back. Which is the big mistake right there. I should have just kept it moving. Cause before when we broke up she would be the one crawling back to me.

 

[MikelArteta]

I used to drive my godsons mom to work as it was on my way and she lives on my way to work. Anyways I never did on Mondays because she had her kid weekends and the baby dad would driver her on his way back home
.

Then one Monday she asked me to, I'm like don't you have a ride? And she's like he's sleeping, so I said wake him up you have a ride.

You should have seen how angry she got because I said no, when you don't have anyone to take you I will. But if you do why should I get off the highway even for a few minutes to go get you. Now she has to take the bus in the freezing cold because supposedly I was "harsh" but you know ah well.

Stand up for yourself because NP one else will